Normal people apologize to you when they hurt you. Narcissistic people make you feel guilty when you are feeling hurt.Normal people acknowledge the impact of their actions. They take responsibility, say “I’m sorry,” and try to make things right. They understand that your feelings are valid and that emotional pain is real.Narcissistic people, on the other hand, twist the situation. They deflect, blame, and manipulate your emotions, making you question your own perception. Instead of offering comfort or accountability, they make you feel like you are overreacting, selfish, or unreasonable. Their goal is not reconciliation; it’s control.With a normal person, hurt leads to healing. With a narcissist, hurt leads to confusion, doubt, and self-blame. Recognizing the difference is the first step to protecting your emotional wellbeing.